2010年7月26日 星期一

[哲思]戲景

人生如戲
對酒當歌,人生幾何?比如朝露,去日苦多

參加了一場相當溫馨感人的追思音樂會,
依照遺願選擇喜歡的曲目,
由家族成員一一上台演奏和獻唱,表達思念之情。
儀節表除了放上故人略歷、生活照外,
還有一封封家書,給孩子的臨別贈言。
再三叮嚀,要重視健康、學業、才藝...
還有信仰要持守
最是深切的愛,卻是體現在生活的每個小小細節中

擁有甜美的容貌,優秀的學經歷和工作,
可愛的孩子,美滿的家庭
面對每個角色,
她全力以赴,事事要求完美。

但當命運的號角響起時,她是一個母親!!

人生終究是虛空一場。
但我卻看見了...
一個母親奮力與命運搏鬥的同時,
想要給孩子,最大最大的愛~

--
相當巧合
本周才跟M討論到哥林多前書4:9,
在追思音樂會中的致詞恰巧也引用到
不禁感觸良多。
[1Corinthian 4:9]
因為我們成了一臺戲,給世人和天使觀看。
For, I think, God has exhibited us apostles last of all, as men condemned to death; because we have become a spectacle to the world, both to angels and to men.


對這段經文的釋義,首先聯想到的是哥林多前書15:19
[1Corinthian 15:19]
我們若靠基督,只在今生有指望,就算比眾人更可憐。
If we have hoped in Christ in this life only, we are of all men most to be pitied.


查閱資料,發現了希伯來書的記載比較淺白
[Hebrews 10:33]
一面被毀謗,遭患難,成了戲景,叫眾人觀看
partly by being made a public spectacle through reproaches and tribulations,


人生恰如一場戲,無論多麼絢爛光亮的場景
終究有曲終人散之時。

此外,面對乍看之下不佳的處境,
眾人抱持看戲的心態,或許在背後訕笑
人生終究是自己的
想清楚了,確切知道努力的目標,全力以赴即可。
其他的蜚短流長,就不必在乎了...

--

比起熱鬧的婚禮,
喪禮的冷調,更使人的思維澄澈清明,
透過反思自省,獲得智慧,
希望可以把握當下,做正確的決定
化為生活的能量,為人生全力以赴

[Ecclesiastes 7:2]
往遭喪的家去,強如往宴樂的家去;因為死是眾人的結局,活人也必將這事放在心上。
It is better to go to a house of mourning Than to go to a house of feasting, Because that is the end of every man, And the living takes it to heart.

[Ecclesiastes 7:4]
智慧人的心在遭喪之家;愚昧人的心在快樂之家。
The mind of the wise is in the house of mourning, While the mind of fools is in the house of pleasure.

2010年7月19日 星期一

[book]God Thinks You're Wonderful

買了一本小書"上帝喜歡你!"
內容相當溫馨可愛

英文的版本更是相當生動有趣
特此分享

A book called God thinks you’re wonderful by Max Lucado

God thinks you’re wonderful.
God is fond of you
if He had a wallet your photo would be in it
if He had a refrigerator, your picture would be on it
He sends you flowers every spring and a sunrise every morning
whenever you want to talk He’ll listen
He can live anywhere in the universe and He chose your heart
face it friend, He’s crazy about you
by the way, it may be difficult for you to believe that God knows your name….
but He does
written on His hand
spoken by His mouth
whispered by His lips
your name.

our Hearts are not large enough to contain the blessing that God wants to give
so try this. the next time a sunrise steals your breath,

or a meadow of flowers leaves you speechless..
remain that way
say nothing as heaven whispers “do you like it? I did it just for you.”
if we give gifts to show our love, how much more would He?

He could have left the world gray and flat but He didn’t
He splashed orange in the sunrise
and cast blue in the sky
and if you love to see geese as they gather,

chances are you’ll see that too.
did He have to make squirrel’s tails fluffy?
was He obliged to make birds sing?
and the funny way that chickens scurry….
or the majesty of thunder when it rings?
why give a flower a fragrance?
why give food it’s taste?
could it be He loves to see that look on your face?

so promise me you’ll never forget that you aren’t an accident or an incident
you are a gift to the world
a divine work of art created and signed by God,

you were deliberately planned, specifically gifted,
and lovingly positioned on this earth…
by the master craftsman
He thinks you are the best thing to come down the pike in a while
turn to the side lines, that’s God cheering your run
look past the finish line, that’s God applauding your steps.

God is you
your birthday is circled on his calendar
if He drove a car your name would be on his bumper
if there’s a tree in Heaven He’s carved your name into the bark
Maybe you don’t want to trouble God with your hurts, but He cares about you
He is waiting for you, to embrace you whether you succeed or fail
un tethered by time, God see’s us all
vagabonds and ragamuffins (my dad always calls me that)

He saw is before we were born. and He loved what He saw
even flooded by emotion over come by pride,

the star maker turns to us one by one sand says
“you are my child, I love you dearly
I’m aware that someday you will turn from me and walk away,
but I want you to know I’ve already provided a way back.”

you have captured the Heart of God
He cannot bear to live without you
God’s dream is to make you right with Him
“Can anything make me stop loving you?” God asks
“you wonder how long my love will last?

Watch me speak your language, sleep on your earth, and feel your hurts.
find your answer in what I have given you
and what I will give you
that’s how much I love you
God does more than forgive our mistakes;

He removes them! we simply have to take them to him.
you can talk to God because He listens.
let a tear appear on your cheek, and He is there to wipe it.
He has sent his angels to care for you,

his holy spirit to dwell in you and his word to guide you
as much as you want to see him, He wants to see you more
if you want to touch God’s Heart, use the name He loves to Hear.

“Father”

He’s done this all for you.

2010年7月18日 星期日

[idea]告別式選曲

為自己的告別式選好曲子了
連節目內容也有想法
希望大家可以穿上漂亮的衣服
每個人帶一朵香檳色玫瑰來參加

播放每個時期跟家人還有朋友的合照
同學,朋友,同事,教會朋友
大家一起看看照片聊聊天
上台說說相處過程中的趣事
說說對我的臨別贈言
然後一起唱要送給我的歌
也許會禁不住落淚
但更希望大家想想我的好
然後記在心中
那就夠了


曲目
1.這一生最美的祝福
在無數的黑夜裡,我用星星畫出你,
你的恩典如晨星,讓我真實的見到你,
在我的歌聲裡,我用音符讚美你,
你的美好是我今生頌揚的。

這一生最美的祝福,就是能認識主耶穌,
這一生最美的祝福,就是能信靠主耶穌,
走在高山深谷,祂會伴我同行,
我知道 這是最美的祝福。

2.人生的福
人生一切 能享的福,哪樣保留得住?
人生一切 能享的福,哪樣不虛空?
人生一切 能享的福,那樣能夠滿足?
人生一切 能享的福,那樣能帶走?

我願給你最好禮物 ,就是主基督
勝過你人生一切的福 最深的羨慕

你能給我最好禮物,是信主基督!
跟隨祂腳步 永遠有福,
我最深的喜悅 和歡呼


3.來到美地187
到日期,我樂意...

2010年7月15日 星期四

[思]美麗與艱難

清晨起床
映入眼簾的是
極其絢爛美麗的晨光
陽光從雲中迸射而出,
照在山脈的稜線上
空氣中還有水氣的味道
一望無際的海景
讓心情隨視野一同開闊起來

真是美到不行的地方
但孩子的生活
卻又怎會如此艱難?

--

經濟貧困
家庭破碎
隔代教養
病痛,不良嗜好
小小年紀的孩子
要面對的是現實生活的重重困境


相較之下,
都市裡生活優渥的人們
所汲汲營營的,
似乎都顯得微不足道許多

2010年7月14日 星期三

以小搏大

99年的山輔又展開了
照例又開始匆匆趕路的環島行程
這次職前在富世
-花蓮太魯閣入口附近的一個小村莊

雖然親上火線已是多年前的往事,
自己也只能有小小的貢獻,
但無論多少,只要對孩子有幫助的,
都願意盡力去做

--

總笑說自己近乎自虐的病症越發嚴重
無論多辛苦,只要有意義的事
都會去做,即使孩子不見得領情
或者會被討厭
但只要一句小小的感謝
看見一個孩子被體會了,學懂了
就感動到不能自己
繼續傻乎乎努力下去
馬校長不也是如此

其實就是一部寫實記錄片
一般人可能只是平淡地看完
可一旦思及這些孩子的處境
看見片裡其中一個孩子的狀況
都是山輔孩子生活的縮影

校長想要盡自己的力去幫助孩子
無論如何艱難
力量如何微小
就是努力去做

總讓我想到山輔工作
這麼多年累積的成果
也許有些許起色
但時勢卻又更壞了

面對現實的衝擊來襲
就要這麼放手了嗎?
反而更深覺是非做不可的使命

2010年7月9日 星期五

[思]自己的麥田

你是麥子,你應在麥田裏尋找位置,巴黎的人行道不適合你

侯文詠寫了吳冠中的紀念文章
提到了這句話是改變吳冠中人生的重要關鍵

每個人都有屬於自己的麥田
放在對的位置才能發芽成長
迎向屬於自己的天空

看起來煙花絢爛的巴黎,
不見得適合自己


梵谷說:
你也許會說,在巴黎也有花朵,
你也可以開花、結果。
但你是麥子,你的位置是在故鄉的麥田裏。
種到故鄉的泥土裏去,你才能生根、發芽。